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Total Emotional Performance™
Emotional Agility for Real Life, Personal Leadership, and the Body

You don’t need another coping strategy.

You need emotional clarity, regulation, and control that actually works in your real life.

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Total Emotional Performance™ is a refined, experience-based approach that helps high-functioning people stop reacting, stop over-managing themselves, and start responding with confidence — emotionally, relationally, and physically.

 

This work isn’t about fixing you.
It’s about helping you operate at your highest emotional capacity.

The Emotional Performance Strategist
Helping You Break Free & Live for Yourself First. No guilt. No punishment. No restriction. Just unshakable clarity & confidence.

Hey! I'm Tricia Parido

I Take You From Daily Struggle to Complete Emotional Agility
International Emotional Performance Strategist | Psycho-Nutrition Consultant | Credentialing Instructor | Professional Expansion Mentor | CEO | Speaker

Look ... You’re Not Broken.

But Your Coping Strategies ...

They Might Be.

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For a long time, I lived inside that space too — high-functioning on the outside, over-managing myself on the inside. Doing everything I was “supposed” to do… while quietly carrying the weight of stress, pressure, and self-doubt.

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What changed everything wasn’t trying harder.
It was learning how to lead myself emotionally.

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Today, I help capable, driven adults move out of survival patterns and into emotional clarity, stability, and self-trust — so they can respond to life instead of constantly managing it.

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This work isn’t about fixing who you are.
It’s about helping you operate at your highest emotional capacity — in your decisions, your relationships, and your body.

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This Is Emotional Performance

Not Therapy, Not Motivation, Not Surface-Level Wellness

Emotional performance is the ability to stay grounded, clear, and self-directed —
even under pressure, conflict, responsibility, or change.

It’s how you:

  • Respond instead of react

  • Lead yourself without burnout or self-betrayal

  • Stay emotionally steady without shutting down

  • Support your body without punishing it

 

My work integrates emotional agility, nervous system awareness, identity-level insight, and real-world application — without pathologizing normal human struggle.

Ways to Work With Me

Advanced Emotional Agility & Personal Leadership

 

This is where emotional skill becomes usable under pressure.

Insight & Impact is a high-level experience for people who are ready to:

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  • Break emotional patterns without self-blame

  • Navigate relationships, boundaries, and responsibility with clarity

  • Strengthen self-trust, control, and emotional resilience

  • Apply emotional intelligence in real-life moments—not just conversations

 

This work is facilitated, integrated, and designed for people who want lasting change, not surface relief.

Understanding the Emotional Drivers Behind Eating & Energy

 

Food is rarely just about food.

Psycho-Nutrition explores the emotional, mental, and nervous-system patterns that influence:

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  • Eating for control, soothing, restriction, or reward

  • Energy crashes and inconsistency

  • Stress-related digestion and appetite changes

 

This is non-therapeutic, non-restrictive, and deeply insightful work designed to help you understand why your body responds the way it does — so you can make informed, supportive changes.

Loving Your Physical Body

Supporting Your Body Without Punishment

 

Your body isn’t failing you — it’s responding.

 

This work helps you:

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  • Understand your body’s stress signals

  • Choose movement that supports your nervous system

  • Build sustainable physical habits without forcing consistency

  • Work with your physiology instead of against it

 

This approach honors energy, recovery, lifestyle, and emotional load — because physical health doesn’t exist in isolation.

Live For Yourself First
(Live Free)

The Foundation of Everything I Teach

 

This is where it all begins.

 

Live For Yourself First is the foundational experience that helps you:

  • Build emotional awareness without overwhelm

  • Identify coping patterns that no longer serve you

  • Ground yourself in moments of stress or pressure

  • Develop clarity around control, choice, and self-responsibility

 

This work creates the internal stability required for deeper emotional performance.

Why This Work Is Different

This work is built on years of professional education, real-world application, and lived experience.

It is:

  • Recovery-informed

  • Performance-driven

  • Grounded in emotional intelligence, behavior science, and nervous system awareness

  • Designed for people who are capable, responsible, and tired of carrying everything alone

Total Emotional Performance™ evolved from the foundational work established through
Turning Leaves­®, Recovery, Life, & Wellness Coaching LLC, and represents the advanced expression of that mission today.

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Not Sure Where to Start?

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Choose the path that fits you right now:

From Survival to Self-Mastery: Client Success Stories

Your Life Doesn’t Have to Feel Like a Battle.

I’ve walked alongside professionals, high-achievers, and deeply motivated individuals who felt stuck ... burned out, trapped in toxic cycles, or drowning in self-doubt.

 

They didn’t need another temporary fix. They needed a complete shift in how they approached life.

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Here’s what happens when you stop relying on things outside of yourself to bring you peace, joy, comfort, and worthiness — and start mastering emotional agility.

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Before & After: Real Client Journeys 👇

"L" = From People-Pleasing to Personal Freedom

She had spent a lifetime shaping herself to meet everyone else's needs, never feeling like she measured up. After a year of crippling depression and a moment that nearly ended it all, she made a choice — to stop bending herself to fit others and finally step into her own identity.

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✔ Now? She moves through life with self-trust, emotional clarity, and a fierce understanding of her own worth—on her terms.

Total Emotional Performance™
Founded by Tricia Parido

Legacy Practice: Turning Leaves®, Recovery, Life, & Wellness Coaching LLC.
Serving individuals and professionals nationwide

This work is coaching and educational in nature and is not psychotherapy or medical treatment.

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